Monday, August 10, 2020

And Happy Birthday to her:)~












August 10th 1975..
I was 21 having my first daughter..

I didn't even know what I was doing:)
Turned out alright:):):)I think..just loving them is key.;)

I sure knew how to decorate lol..I don't think there was an undecorated part of her ..maybe 5 yr old room..♥
I had lost my mom in Dec of '73..and when I saw this head of black hair like my mom's..♥

I hear crickets..I hear end of summer..very few clematis remain..
and they did poorly this year.

Zinnias are popping..but I wanted fields..
Dahlia..only one..and no buds yet.
We've had some rain so things look a little greener..it's been the driest summer ever..
My tomatoes are starting to turn..but I saw my son-in-laws garden Sat and let me tell you chickens make a HUGE difference.
He is already harvesting and the 4 plants I gave him are monumentally huger than all my 12 put together.

I am going to worry about Blogger later.
Maybe after Covid.
Please tell me by Christmas we will be in each others homes..

Lucas had a birthday too:)
And Giuliana and Adamo..

Summer is bday season..Oli will be the last Sept 8th.
I have missed every outing with them this summer.

Lunch and shopping..  so many things by the wayside for so many people..
And these are infinitely microscopic things compared to most.

Strawberries and blueberries have come and gone..
Now CORN..my favorite..
Gosh..Peaches and Cream deliciousness.

It's the bee balm and yellows now..and hydrangeas..
Japanese Anemones and annuals ..
Russian Sage..
And Phlox..

I am still thoroughly enjoy Chris Petri's You tube watercolor tutorials..I got a nifty little water container w/ brush holder..as if I needed it but I like it..I'll share it next time just thought to tell you now.

I hear crickets..did I mention that?

Have a beautiful day and a wonderful year darling~♥

And to you..a good week.
Take care.











43 comments:

  1. I can't believe we are mid August already! My zinnias and tomatoes have not performed well either. Happy Birthday to everyone in your family!

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  2. It’s nice to be back to blogging, I’ve missed your beautiful posts! I look forward to keeping up with you, my dear friend!
    Nancy🌼

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  3. Dear Monique, I also feel that I have paid little attention to the blog. I feel like I'm not alone in this lack of attention that many of my friends have emigrated to Instagram. But blogging is something else entirely. I will wait for the enthusiasm to return.
    Happy birthday to your daughter.

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  4. Congratulations with your daughter ...please stay safe...love happy week Ria 💕🍀🙏🍀💕

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  5. I decided to buy some manure to add to some of my garden beds. I know it's not the right time of year to do that but the older I get I just do things when I feel motivated or it may never get done. I spread most of it around my herb bed. I plan to add more to a few beds over the winter....if I find the motivation!

    I was motivated by Alexandra at The Middle-sized Garden. I absolutely love her Youtube channel. I discovered it back in March...I can't remember if I just stumbled on it or what. I've never missed an episode since then. I think you would enjoy her too.

    Here's her blog:
    https://www.themiddlesizedgarden.co.uk/

    And here's her Youtube channel
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9l0mKCZRMJCZ-UFwDgrUjw

    Her videos are not too long & very fun to listen to. She interviews people & does a seasonal tour of her own garden. Even though her climate is different from mine I've found some great advice & lots of motivation from her.

    You too have been such an encouragement to me through this crazy year. I look forward to seeing all you share.

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    1. Thank you for this info!Lol at my age I do things when the mood strikes too and very soon I will buy bags of manure..makes such a difference . Believe me when I say companionship via my blog is so appreciated!Absolutely going to look at the links and thank you!

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    2. Thank you..following..blog..IG and you tube!!:)

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  6. Dearest Monique,
    Happy Birthday to your eldest!
    So sad that you lost your Mom SO YOUNG!...
    Today is my sister-in-law's B'day too.
    Enjoy the summer. Indeed a sad fact that nothing is going on right now.
    We spend 3 lazy nights at our favorite Hyatt Place. No hot breakfast served... just grab and go and NOT healthy, nothing for me that's allowed. I called ahead and knew it would be like that so we did bring our cool box with things for keeping in the room's fridge. Sad discovery when we went to the Hilton Head Outlet Mall. Barely a car parked and stores almost empty! We were waited on eagerly... So SAD for the economy!
    When we got home UPS delivered our hardcover and it looked great. Feeling so relieved and happy. WHY did they not ship the paperback together with it? That arrives on Wednesday.
    Feels like summer is winding down already without us having a fair taste of it.
    Praying hard for normal times!
    Hugs,
    Mariette

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    1. Everything has changed..the economy..the deaths..the schools..the children.
      This was not nipped in the bud soon enough.
      It was not taken seriously.
      Young entrepreneurs n my town are working sooo hard to keep their businesses afloat.
      Personally ..I am going nowhere..s I am not doing my part for restos..but we never went before.
      Travel to the US is now out of the question.Who knows when things will return..

      Good for you and the book..now that must be exiting:

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  7. What lovely pictures, Send to your daugther tons of love and hugs and happy birthday!!! xo

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  8. Oh mustn't grumble. Ma Nature has a mind of her own., I am sure whatever is bloomin is a prize-winner if you touched it.
    So the chickens are eating yr tomatoes?
    "Off with their heads!"
    Only kidding...they are yr 'covid' grandchildren..
    Cheers 😄

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    1. The squirrels and chipmunks are biting off the tomatoes..taking a nibble and tossing..grrrrr..Thing is I grow these from seed..so..I don't have a lot of love for the beasts lol.

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  9. Beautiful photos, and your painting is lovely. I'm going to have a look at Chris Petri's youtube, see if I can improve my painting :-)

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  10. 🎈🎈🎈Happiest Birthday Mylene🎈🎈🎈
    her room looks fabulous...and I spy Raggedy Anne...with lovely dark hair!!!
    your garden sure sounds more lush than mine...and the cottage 😔...don't get me started!!
    kind of gloomy today...hopefully some rain...
    love your little works of art...🌟
    Enjoy your day!!

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    1. It just clouded over..hope it rains..I have fungus on my tomato plants.. spots..ohmgee..I sprayed a peroxyde mixture hope it helps..

      When I was pregnant w/ M my friend Susan made me a Raddedy Ann and ndy..all in reds etc..they ended up in y red kitchen when we moved and I made these pink ones for each of my girls..not even sure I could still lol..
      Thank you for the nice wishes♥

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    2. It's pouring:)Looks fleeting though.

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  11. Hearing crickets here too, and I sit and wonder what they are feasting on in my garden. Have I mentioned I love the way your write? Of course, many times, but it is so poetic. Your post are soothing to me, pretty images and text that reads like the lyrics of a song. I wonder too if life will ever return to normal. I know some things will never be the same. Our restaurants are closing daily. They can't pay the rent. How will they ever recover? I've not seen family or friends and long for hugs and conversation about just anything. Schools will open with virtual learning. I worry for our young community. They need to be in social situations, they need direct teacher interaction for quality learning. Our retired life is not so different, but for active young families it is a stark change in reality.
    Keep painting, Monique. Keep sharing! You light up the world!

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    1. Merci mon amie..

      Here too business closing..and schools start up here Sept..done deal..oh lala..

      I just read Kamala Harris spent her teen yrs here in Mt..her mom was a doctor..taught at McGill and was affiliated w/ the Jewish General I think..

      I told Lucas today when this is over I will kiss his face♥
      He washed windows w/ grandad outside..distanced..and I did inside..

      It's raining..

      Take care dear Sarah:)

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  12. Happy Birthday to Mylene! I'll bet you can't believe you have a 45 year old daughter and she does have beautiful dark hair :) I love her room! Dolls and butterflies. She looked so happy. By contrast we've had such a rainy summer. Crazy wet! I've been picking tomatoes for at least two weeks now but because of the wet, humid weather, the leaves are curling and turning yellow and brown with spots on them. I'll be lucky if the rest of the tomatoes ripen before the plants die. I know you have water restrictions there so I'm sure keeping your garden watered during your dry summer has been very difficult :( Yes, crickets singing at night her now too. Sad to say it's a sure sign that fall is near. It was such a sad and lonely start to summer and then no pool until the end of July. Let's pray for a mild and warm fall! I love your magnolia painting! I still have just a few clematis blooms left. Nothing in abundance right now. Waiting for the dahlias to begin. The 4 o'clocks are a bright spot in the garden. ♥

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    1. My 4 oclocks are just starting and the beetles love some of them:(
      Susan I have just started picking tomatoes and today I noticed yellowing leaves and brown spots..on ALL..I cut them off and have sprayed w/ a peroxyde mix..just after dinner..and now it poured..I'll try again tomorrow..It's this HUMIDEX..Oy not my fave gardening yr at all..
      Glad your pool is up an running ..it was made for those boys..:)♥

      I only have 1 dahlia.. and not one bud yet..like I said..pitiful yr..and those friggin beetles..one thing after another!!

      Here's to us..invincible optimistic gardeners..Ya right;)

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  13. Happy birthday to your lovely daughter. We wonder where the times goes. I hope in the near future, we all can gather to celebrate and enjoy family time. Your garden photos are so pretty.

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  14. I was so thrilled to come home and find out I had phlox! I don't think I even knew I did! Bright pink and very happy.

    I love your many birthday celebrations and happy birthday to all your celebrants this month. How glorious. I, too, look forward to the day when we can gather and celebrate big. I don't know if it will be Christmas or not, but I hope so...

    (Most of my garden is miserable....)

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    1. Its hard to manage two homes!But oh the joys..

      No worries..gardens are a ton of work...
      Have a great weekend back home Jeanie and Rick!

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  15. Happy Birthday to Mylene! Yes, crickets singing at night here too and fall is near. After the sunniest summer we have had in a LONG time, it will seem deary. I love your magnolia painting! My clematis are blooming again minimally, but it's nice to see blooms. Our phlox, gladiolus, hibiscus, yellow day lilies and anemones are stealing the show at this moment. I'll be canning tomatoes this weekend.

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    1. Oh you do do that true!!Of course w/ Joe:)How could I forget..do you have an electric canner..I ask because I just read this,
      https://www.theartofdoingstuff.com/how-to-press-can-tomatoes/

      Have fun..I love traditions..yes I assume dreary will be the norm:(

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  16. I'm probably going to end my blog...Oh so sad, but sometimes the universe just lets you know it's time for something different...and it's not the new blogger, I'm afraid...
    So sweet your dear daughter's birthday...the painting is divine! Covid shall pass. Some families do visit indoors...

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    1. I think there is a time for everything and when we know..we know:( I will miss your art work so much if you do decide to stop..and let's face it..it is a great way to stay in touch with people we like:):)

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  17. Such a pretty post. And how sweetly you share your stories. Your garden still has lots of pretty. Mine is crunchy and ugly. Worse year ever. And the storm we had almost 2 weeks ago whipped the crap out of my pretty butterfly bush!

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    1. I agree worst yr in a long long time for our gardens..it's raining right now..has not in days..hoping it will help..it's a mini rain thouh:(

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  18. What a sweet, sweet post. I was 21 when I had my oldest daughter also, although I had my son at 19. Dark hair like your mums, that must have felt like an angel's kiss. Just look at those beautiful long pony tails. My oldest is 45 also. Our lives echo each other's in so many ways! Love her bedroom. I always wanted to decorate like that, but we always lived in Military housing so we had to keep some restraint. I think the craziest I ever got was with wall paper, the easy strip kind. I think that painting of yours is my most favourite yet. I need to take some of his lessons. Our clematis has not bloomed in two years. I think the Honeysuckle has choked it out. Summer is definitely on the wane. xoxo

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    1. Yes so many similarities!!
      And yes an angel's kiss..

      Some of Chris' tutorials are longer..oh just try one you will be hooked:)If you have time..you are far busier than I am:)

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  19. Hello: I am a new follower by e-mail. I was trying out a black background and Life and Linda asked if I have seen yours. I have now, and it is beautiful. I think your's might be a dark charcoal rather than black. It looks softer than black but it is beautiful. Someone said my black background made her feel sad so I changed it back to white, which is not as easy when using the new blogger. Your photography is wonderful and the color certainly makes it a standout. I look forward to seeing and reading more and would like to invite you over to Gold Country Cottage for a visit..Stay well..xxoJudy

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  20. I like your spirit, Monique. Yes! Let us enjoy the season and everything that comes with it. The worry will always be there, waiting... A belated Happy Birthday to your daughter!!!
    Amalia
    xo

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  21. Love those summer birthday!! :) xo

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