Friday, December 31, 2021

~Into The New Year~

 














Christmas came and went and I appreciated being with family so much.Last year was very sad.Just the two of us zooming with family that lives on our street..and 15 mins away.

This yr our government allowed 10 people .Christmas eve at our daughters we were 10..sadly my son-in-law could not be with us,as he was sitting by his father's side in palliative care.His eldest son was with us.

All testing negative.

We loved being together..talked..laughed..ate..at 11..Alain's father passed away.

We were, in a sense still together..on the phone and with his son.

Things can go from bad to worse quickly we all know.His dad was undergoing chemo..and pneumonia stepped in and carried him away.

He was suffering..And wanted to be with his wife I am sure.

The next day brunch was at our home..and Alain came..he needed to be with family.

We were 10 still as his eldest son didn't come..it's nonna's turn on Christmas Day.

So we exchanged gifts..the boys are so nice and grateful and sweet..I have a stocking too the last few years courtesy of my daughters.I love being with them.

They are my adrenaline.The Spring in my step.The reason I can smile wide and real.

I can't explain the tenderness I feel towards them.

A dash of magic.

Jacques and I watched Call The Midwife the Christmas Special..with Kleenex by our side.





There was a quote in the show..as Mrs Turner (Shelagh) holds a heroin baby in her arms..and has been told that Mae was such a baby before living with them..the Turners had no idea..Shelagh says she will hold and cuddle and administer the opioids to the baby..

A Chance To Travel Back in Time..(something to that effect) She said..It immediately struck me that in fact this is what having grandchildren did for me ..it gave me a chance to travel back in time.

What a gift♥

This show is particularly one of our favorites..ever.

Our daughter that has lived across the street from us..for at least 16 years..will be moving very shortly..the chocolate house was my contribution to her desserts Christmas eve..

That silicone mold is great,,if you can find it and think you may like doing this go  for it.I used Belgian Choco for the house..white bark for roof..

A fun project to add personal touches.

I also brought a home made no knead bread ..saw this heart cut out idea..somewhere..IG I think..

Made a Half Baked Harvest App..Whipped Goat cheese/cream cheese/dates/bacon..I read the reviews first and didn't overbake..Mine wasn't as pretty..

I always buy a Shutterfly calendar.I can prove it by my stack:) Of the Littles..Family..Trips..this yr being so different..

I had some of my Paris People printed up..It's cute:) I like it..Way to go Shutterfly..no stories  just a sampling of my 100ish people.

I need a new painting challenge:)


So we enter 2022..

On a pretty strict lockdown once again.

All restos closed takeout only

Curfew 10 PM-5AM

NO visitors in your home

Schools closed until Jan 17th.

And the list goes on.

I had my booster..all is well.

What are the naysayers waiting for.


Happy New Year..see you in 2022.♥


PS..

My little monthly calendar templates are courtesy of https://mindingmynest.com/


42 comments:

  1. I love hearing about your Christmas with your family -- and you don't have to explain your tenderness toward them. It is evident in every word and photo. My heart goes out to Alain. Any loss is so hard; on Christmas, all the more so. I'm glad he could spend Christmas with the family. I know he needed that love.

    Oh, I wish you'd made your Paris People calendars to sell! They would make you a fortune, even though I know you do it for love!

    Your bread, biscotti, chocolate house are all exquisite. I know your feasts were beyond compare but the really best part was that every person in that room knew they were cherished. Happy New Year, my friend.

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    1. I did it just for me..:) It was fun and the quality is so nice! You should consider it for your artwork ..my mom always said..Les paroles s'envolent..les écrits restent..
      Meaning words fly away..but the written word stays..I'm designating this as written word;)
      Happy Happy Happy and HEALTHY New Year to you:)
      Keep us regaled with your down to earth blog forever.

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  2. What a day of ups and downs, but mostly ups, and that's wonderful. I LOVE your calendar! What joy it will bring you all year long. Happy New Year, Monique!

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    1. Bonne Année Pattie!! It was a fun thing to receive:)

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  3. I am so happy that you got to spend Christmas with your family. I am sorry about your son-in-laws father. Your bread and biscotti look wonderful. Sending you warm wishes for a beautiful 2022.

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    1. It must be lovely there..often in December we get very gloomy days..this has been the case..on top of lockdown..I am keeping busy:) Have a great year!

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  4. Christmas with family is the best, and I know the tenderness of which you speak. My grandchildren are so very dear to me. I was glad that we could be together with them this year as last year was rather lonely.
    How hard to lose a father at this time. I'm glad your son-in-law knew that being with family was important. Delicious biscotti, and I love the idea of a calendar.

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    1. I keep my calendars(of course) and always sad to tuck th photos away..I love looking at their faces..I have baby photos still displayed in our home..I know you know♥Have a wonderful year~

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  5. Lovely calendar and beautiful, yummy treats. So sorry for the loss, especially hard at this time of year.
    Happy New Year, may it be healthy and happy for all. V.

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    1. I truly believe that hen you are truly suffering..and your mind even plays tricks on you..it's time:(He was repeating himsef in all this pain..Married all his life almost..his wife died a few yrs ago..so.he just wanted to see her..if there is life after.A friend wrote..her husband's mom will be 104 this Jan!And healthy:)Happy Year to come dear V:):)x

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  6. Love your calendar !
    Bü is not far from my house 😊
    The chocolate house is gorgeous!!

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  7. HAPPY NEW YEAR! Yes, lets hope 2022 will be a good year :)
    Always so nice visiting your blog...
    Love from Titti

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    1. And to you! As yours is..Simple beauty at it's best ♥

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  8. The chocolate house is a work of art. Love that you got to be with family. Losing a loved one is so hard. Wishing you a healthy, happy new year filled with love, joy and hope.

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    1. I hope all our wishes come true!!!All the same for you!

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  9. Love Call the Midwife. Been missing as I had computer issues but hopefully a new lap top will solve that, Happy New Year to you and your family

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    1. Oh I hope so..Greatest Show On Earth lol.
      Have a great yr!

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  10. Happy 2022 Monique! I am glad that you were able to spend Christmas with your family - it is the best feeling. And I am so sorry for your son-in-law's loss...big hugs to all of you. Wishing you much health, happiness and creative inspiration for the new year! xoxo

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    1. I would love a ton of inspo! What a fun wish on top of the true necessitiesthat you first mentioned..You are so wise:)I wish the same for you♥

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  11. I love Call the Midwife as well, looking forward to it. Happy New Year, dear Monique.
    Amalia
    xo

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  12. Oh Monique, your baked goods are works of art. That chocolate house--wonderful! We were with family for Christmas this year, also. Wasn't that the best gift of all?! Sorry to hear of the loss, but what a blessing for your son-in-law to spend time with his dad at the end. Call the Midwife is my favorite show--the only one I record and watch faithfully. Love it. Happy, Happy New Year to you and your loved ones!!!

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    1. It really was the BEST gift of all..last year felt so empty..Zoom is not in person.I am looking forward to being able to be with family again..We have been robbed of yrs of memories..the last 2 yrs of my daughter's on our street..Summer could see us outside together,,but winter and restrictions here prohibit indoors of course..The best of everything to you Pam:)

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  13. Bonne Annee from the west coast.. We’re not quite in severe lockdown but heading that way. Numbers are out of control.We have had snow and subzero temperatures for 2 weeks. We don’t handle it well. 2022 has to be better. Love your blog

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    1. Thank you..Happy New Year..HAS TO GET BETTER!!!!!:)

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  14. I thought of you last night as I was prepping to make a felted snowy owl ornament. I had the owl you made me on the counter, and Joe was intrigued and asking me questions. He gets into everything I do. LOL Bonne Annee from New York where we are still green and have no snow. What a gift to be with your family on Christmas! My sincere condolences to Alain and family on the loss of his dad. The best of everything to you in the new year. xo

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    1. That Joe! I love the wreath she makes too:) You will be stellar..we have snow falling right now..very little has come ..a covering of an inch or two..not sure what this snowfall has in mind but GLOOOOOOMY days one after the other..Christmas was the best..see one thing my family does for me except for the looks..and kindness..is that they make me LOL all the time.I love that..And everything great for you this yearxx

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  15. Happy you were with your family for Christmas. We were ten also. Joy, laughter & song filled the house it was wonderful! I am sorry for the loss of your loved one. My New Years eve was spent at my daughter and I played all day with me grandsons. On New Years day we finally had a major snow so the boys were so happy to go sledding. I wish & you family all good things in 2022. I think some genius should figure some small machine that we all have at home that we can insert a swab daily to check our covid status, like diabetics monitor sugar levels. I fear covid is here to stay.

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    1. That would be a great idea..and isn't laughter the best? And being with people we loe with all our hearts?The BEST! Happy New Year~

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    1. It was fun to receive such a professionally printed item..Yay Shutterfly:)

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  17. Happy New Year, Pea! I'm so sorry about Alain's father passing away on Christmas Eve. I'm glad he was able to be with his father. I'm also sad that you are in another lock down situation. Not the happiest way to start a new year. Glad you've been boosted! I sure there will be more and more cases after all the New Year's Eve parties :( I love the idea of your calendar of art and the heart made from bread slices. Everything you do. ♥ The chocolate house is a work of art in itself with all the detail you put into it. Did you help with the new home purchase with all of your experience? I'm sure it will be so much fun to paint and decorate. I just published a Half Baked Harvest recipe today :) The app sounds wonderful! I still need to watch Call the Midwife. I love that show too.

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    1. Thank you:)
      I did not help one bit lol.
      They bought it on the spot.I think only one little has seen it.
      And todays real estate was not mine of 11 yrs ago.
      Surprising differences.

      I’ll see it the day they take possession💕Directing the movers in new home.
      It’s going to be fabulous.She calls it their Yellowstone.
      The work Involved in moving…it still smarts after 20.

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    2. I can't imagine moving again! So much to sort through I'd be a mess. Yellowstone ♥

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  18. Happy new year…all the best for you and your family love love from me and Leaf…🍀🐾💕🍀

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  19. Happy New Year Monique! I hope this next year brings only good things for us all. I am sorry for your family's loss. Such a sad thing to happen at that time of year. So sad for your son in law. Love LOVE Call The Midwife. I haven't seen that episode, nor have I been able to find it online. Although I support PBS, for some reason they won't let me view it. I will get to see it eventually! One of the best programs on the air I believe! Loved all of your photos and reading about your celebrations. We are not in complete lockdown here yet, but we should be. Will this ever end? I get my booster on the 11th. Please people get inoculated if you can! It helps everyone!! xoxo

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    1. I think my son-in-law is doing well..his dad was very sick.I ,ust say Alain was stellar..taking him to all chemo appts and sleeping over in a cot..A good son..At the end the father had just moved in with his daughter and new husband.But it deteriorated so fast with pneumonia.
      But I think he is fine.
      Every family has different relationships..
      I think the finality of it all hits us..sometimes abruptly in the case of a sudden passing..or w/ a timeline..
      Never easy..we will never see that face again.
      :(
      OMGEE yes..more good please..it's awful here and of course two camps..yays or nays.:(
      The comments from the nays are absolutely horrendous on social media.
      Anxious for this to be over causing strife on top of malady...

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  20. Happy new year …love Ria and Leaf 🍀🐾💕🍀

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